Validate Your Business Idea: Passion or Burnout? [Guide]
- (Admin) The Thrivology Company
- Feb 8
- 10 min read
That Brilliant Business Idea: Is it Your Passion, Your Profit, or Your Path to Burnout, Lovely?
Hello lovely, Carlene here! 👋 & if you’re reading this, chances are you’ve got that incredible, bubbling excitement that comes with the thought of starting your own business. It’s a feeling I know so well – that spark of an idea that could change everything, give you the flexibility you crave as a mum, & allow you to build something truly yours.
But amidst that excitement, there’s often a swirl of questions, maybe a dash of overwhelm, & the big one: what business should I actually start?
I see so many brilliant women, especially mothers, at this "Foundation Builder" stage – that early stage of idea validation, just launching, or securing your first clients (think of that ambitious woman needing solid ground to build upon). And let me tell you, this very first decision, choosing your business idea, isn't just a small step. It's a foundational act of Personal Responsibility & OwnershipPersonal Responsibility & Ownership. It’s you, taking the pen & writing the first, crucial chapter of your entrepreneurial story. Get this right, & you're setting yourself up for sustainable success & genuine fulfilment. Get it slightly off-kilter, & well, that’s where the path to early burnout & the dreaded "feast or famine" cycle often begins. Honestly, getting this decision off-kilter is something I've personally experienced in the past and have learned from.
So, let’s have a real chat, cuppa in hand, about how to navigate this pivotal choice by strategically aligning your genuine passion with market profitability. Because true entrepreneurial alignment isn’t just about monetising a hobby or jumping on the latest trend. It’s a thoughtful, intuitive, yet evidence-informed process of discovering how your unique blend of skills, experiences, & passions can solve a real problem for a specific group of people, profitably.
The Passion Pitfall & The Profit Puzzle: Why "Follow Your Passion" Isn't Always Enough
We’ve all heard it: "Follow your passion, & you’ll never work a day in your life!" And yes, passion is utterly vital. It’s the rocket fuel that will keep you going on those tougher days – & believe me, as a mum of four juggling a PhD & a business, I know those days happen! That deep well of enthusiasm & energy is essential for sustaining your efforts & truly enjoying what you do. It’s what helps you build a business that energises, rather than drains you.
But passion alone, without a clear path to profit, can quickly turn into a very expensive & disheartening hobby. Honestly, I think it's like Myron Golden says: "Money is a reward you get for solving problems." I remember, years ago, before my fashion degree at UEL really clicked for me & long before my MBA, I was fascinated by a very niche type of intricate jewellery making. I poured hours into learning it, absolutely loved the creative process, & dreamt of selling my unique pieces. The passion was 100% there. The problem? When I tentatively explored selling them, I realised the time it took to create each piece meant I’d have to charge prices that the few people interested just weren’t willing to pay for that particular item. I felt so discouraged when I realised my passion project wasn't financially viable, but it taught me a crucial lesson about market validation. It was an early, invaluable lesson in the profit puzzle. I lost around £500 in materials and hours of wasted time.
It's a trap many aspiring entrepreneurs fall into: they’re so in love with their business idea that they forget to ask the crucial question – will people actually pay for this, consistently, & at a price that makes it a viable business? This isn't about crushing your dreams; it's about grounding them in reality so they can truly take flight.
Unearthing Your Authentic Passions & Skills: The 'You' Factor
So, where do we start? We start with you. This is the exciting part, the deep dive into what truly makes you, you. This isn't just about what you’re ‘good at’ in a traditional job sense; it’s about uncovering the golden threads that weave through your life.
Take a moment, grab a notebook (a real one, trust me on this!), & let’s do some exploring:
What do you genuinely LOVE doing?What do you genuinely LOVE doing? What activities make you lose track of time? What topics could you talk about for hours without getting bored? Think beyond work – hobbies, volunteer activities, things you do just for the joy of it. This is about identifying what truly lights you up & provides that essential inner drive.
What are your unique skills, talents, & experiences?What are your unique skills, talents, & experiences? Don't just list job titles. Think about what you actually do well
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Are you a fantastic organiser?
A natural teacher?
A brilliant problem-solver?
A creative whizz?
A compassionate listener?
Include skills honed through motherhood, personal projects, or even navigating challenging life situations. My own journey through different educational environments, for instance, taught me so much about the importance of finding the right 'fit' & listening to my intuition – skills that are invaluable in business. Honestly, UEL was where I found my "tribe," & where my passion for fashion & marketing truly ignited. How does this resonate with your own journey to find the right 'fit' for your business? You can explore more about how finding your purpose is central to our philosophy here at Femmeprenista in our post on
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What problems do you naturally find yourself wanting to solve?What problems do you naturally find yourself wanting to solve? This is a big one for me. As I’ve often said, "I don't just do what I'm told. I actually question Is this the best way of doing things? & no matter where I'm at, like, if I see a problem, like to solve it." What issues get under your skin? What do friends & family always come to you for advice on? Your inherent desire to fix, improve, or create can be a powerful indicator of a potential business path.
Listen to your intuition.Listen to your intuition. That gut feeling, that inner knowing – it’s incredibly powerful. My decision to switch universities to UEL, even though it felt like a detour at the time, was driven by a deep sense that it was the right place for me. It was where I found my "tribe" & where my passion for fashion & marketing truly ignited, even as a new mother. Your intuition will often nudge you towards paths that align with your deepest self.
This self-reflection is crucial. It ensures that the business you choose will resonate with your core being, making the entrepreneurial journey more fulfilling & sustainable.
Is There a Market for Your Magic? The 'Them' Factor
Okay, so you’ve delved into your passions & skills. Now for the equally important flip side: is there a real need for what you’re considering offering? This is where we put on our smart business hat & do some gentle, initial reality checks. It doesn’t need to be scary or overly complicated, especially at this stage.
Here are some simple questions to ponder:
Who would pay for this?Who would pay for this? Try to picture your ideal client. Who are they? What are their lives like? The clearer you can be about who you’re serving, the easier it will be to see if your idea meets their needs. This clarity is foundational to crafting marketing messages that truly connect.
What specific problem does your idea solve for them?What specific problem does your idea solve for them? People pay for solutions. Does your business idea save them time, make them money, reduce their stress, bring them joy, improve their health, or help them achieve a specific goal? Get really specific here.
Are people already looking for solutions like this?Are people already looking for solutions like this? A little bit of simple online searching can go a long long way.
Are there keywords people are typing into Google related to this problem or solution?
Are there Facebook groups or online forums where people are discussing these challenges?
Are there other businesses (even if they’re not exactly like your business idea) serving this need? (Competition isn't always bad; it can indicate a healthy market!)
This isn’t about finding an business idea no one has ever thought of. It’s about identifying a genuine need & figuring out how your unique approach, your "magic," can meet that need in a way that resonates. Building with this kind of clarity from the outset helps you focus your efforts & build a strong vision for where you want to go.
The Sweet Spot: Where Your Passion Meets Real Profitability
The magic truly happens when you find that beautiful intersection – the sweet spot where what you love to do, what you’re brilliant at, & what people will genuinely pay for all come together.
This isn’t about compromising your passion. It’s about strategically channelling it. It’s about understanding that a truly sustainable business, especially for us busy mums, needs to nourish our soul & our bank account. It’s this alignment that helps prevent the dreaded burnout, that feeling of constantly pushing a boulder uphill. When your business is in this sweet spot, it fuels you. It makes showing up, even on the tough days (like when the two-year-old has decided your important notes are a new art project, or Espresso, our hyper mini-pin, has mistaken your feet for a chew toy during a focus session!), feel more purposeful & less like a chore.
Choosing a business idea thoughtfully at this stage impacts everything: your ability to create streamlined systems, your confidence in your marketing, your capacity to manage your energy, & ultimately, your long-term success & fulfilment. This is really all about finding that blend of Focus (mindset), Flair (marketing), Flow (systems), Fuel (well-being), & Fusion (AI). Honestly, alignment is everything, & my own experiences, from the playground sweet-selling days to navigating corporate life at Apple & Electrolux, & then making the deliberate choice to pursue my MBA & now my PhD while building Femmeprenista, have all reinforced this. If you’re curious about my journey, you can read a bit more here: About Carlene Nisbett / Our Founder.
Let me give you a concrete example to help make this come to life. Take one of my Momentum clients, we'll call her Sarah. She's amazing at crafting unique, hand-poured candles, but her initial marketing was all over the place, attracting bargain hunters who didn't value the artistry. She was exhausted and underpaid. By applying these questions, we clarified that her ideal client was the busy professional woman looking for a small daily luxury to create calm. And, more importantly, that this woman was willing to pay a premium for a hand-crafted candle if it was presented as self-care ritual, rather than just a candle. That shift in focus - identifying "her" & framing the offer to meet a deeper need - completely changed her business.
This initial choice is where you lay the groundwork for a business that not only supports the flexible, impactful life you desire but also feels authentically you.
Taking Ownership: This Choice is Your First Big Win
Making this decision – to thoughtfully choose a business idea that aligns your passion with profit – is a powerful act of Personal Responsibility & OwnershipPersonal Responsibility & Ownership. It’s you saying, "I am in control of my entrepreneurial destiny. I am choosing to build something sustainable, something that serves me & others, something I can be truly proud of."
It’s easy to get caught in limiting beliefs at this stage:
"What if I pick the wrong thing?"
"There are so many business ideas; I don’t know where to start!"
"Am I even qualified to do this?"
Listen, those thoughts are normal. But I’m here to tell you that you are capable. You have unique gifts & experiences. The key is to work smart, not just hard. Here are some steps for working smart:
Journal Your Fears:Journal Your Fears: Dedicate 10 minutes to journaling about every single fear you have about starting this business. Look back at what you write and notice whether that fear has any evidence to back it. 9 times out of 10, that fear will just be a thought that is not rooted in facts.
Create a Vision Board:Create a Vision Board: Take an hour out of your day and find images online and offline that highlight what you will experience when you overcome these fears. Use that vision board as your guide for where you are going.
To take a deep breath, do the reflective work, do the initial validation, & trust yourself to make an informed, intuitive decision. This choice isn't about finding the "perfect" idea that guarantees instant, effortless success. Entrepreneurship is a journey, often a wonderfully windy one. But starting with a strong, aligned foundation makes navigating that journey so much more joyful & ultimately, more successful. I'm like Sue Knight says "&Success comes from within. Our success depends on our ability to be excellent in everything we think, say, & do."
Ready to Turn That Spark into a Solid Foundation?
Choosing the right business idea to start is arguably one of the most important decisions you'll make as an entrepreneur. It’s the bedrock upon which everything else is built. It’s about honouring your passions while respecting the practicalities of the market. It’s about taking ownership & setting yourself up for a journey that’s not just profitable, but deeply fulfilling.
So, take these insights, give yourself the space to reflect, & start exploring. What unique magic can you bring to the world, & who is waiting to receive it? It’s really funny because I feel like Paulo Coelho says "&When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”
If you're feeling that spark of a business idea (or perhaps a few!) & you’re ready for dedicated support to really test its wings, gain crystal clarity on your ideal client & niche, & create a foundational action plan before you invest significant time & money, then our Spark Program is designed to guide you through exactly that process. It’s the perfect next step for Foundation Builders like you who are ready to lay strong groundwork.
Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Femme:Connect is a vibrant, free community of ambitious female entrepreneurs, all navigating the beautiful chaos & incredible rewards of building businesses they love.
Carlene Nisbett
Founder & CEO, Femmeprenista (Coach, Mentor, Speaker)
Wife, Mother of four, Business Owner, PhD Researcher, Pet mom, Plant mom, 5'0" tall Passionate Multitasker & Wine Lover, You get the drift
P.S. This workbook is just the beginning!
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