Strategic Delegation Femmeprenista: Reclaim Time & CEO Power
- (Admin) The Thrivology Company
- Aug 15, 2024
- 9 min read
Strategic Delegation for the Overstretched Femmeprenista: More Than Just Offloading Tasks – It’s About Reclaiming Your CEO Power, Time, & Sanity
Alright, let’s have a really honest chat, just us. You know that feeling, right? The one where your to-do list has a to-do list, your brain feels like it’s juggling a dozen flaming torches (and one of them is definitely about what’s for dinner), & the idea of “me time” sounds like a mythical creature you once read about in a fairytale? If you’re nodding along, possibly with a half-eaten biscuit in hand & a child gently tugging at your sleeve, then darling, you’re in the right place.
Honestly, as a fellow Femmeprenista, a CEO, & a mum of four, I’ve lived & breathed that sensation of being stretched thinner than cling film over last night’s leftovers. There’s this unspoken pressure, isn’t there? To be superwoman, to do it all, to prove we can build empires while simultaneously rustling up organic snacks & remembering World Book Day costumes. It’s exhausting. And here’s a truth bomb: it’s also unsustainable if you’re serious about scaling your impact & just as importantly, your sanity.
So, what if you could ditch the overwhelm, reclaim your CEO power, & finally carve out time for the things that really matter? What if delegation wasn't just another task on your never-ending list, but a strategic key to unlocking your business potential & reigniting your personal joy? Today, I want to talk about something that often gets a bad rap, or at least feels incredibly difficult to implement: delegationdelegation. But not just any delegation. We’re going beyond simply “offloading tasks.” We’re talking about strategic delegation as a powerful act of reclaiming your CEO power, your precious time, & your mental well-being. It’s about moving from “doing it all” to truly “leading it all.”
Why Does Letting Go Feel Like Letting Go of a Limb?
Oh, the mindset hurdles! If I had a pound for every time I’ve heard a brilliant female entrepreneur (myself included, in the early days!) say, “But no one can do it like I can,” or “It’s just quicker if I do it myself,” I’d probably own a small island by now.
Let’s be real, these feelings are so common, especially for us:
The Perfectionism Trap:The Perfectionism Trap: We have high standards, & that’s a good thing! But sometimes it morphs into a belief that only we can execute tasks to the exact right specification. I remember meticulously crafting every single social media post for my early ventures, convinced that no one else could capture my ‘voice’. Honestly, it nearly burnt me out, & it definitely wasn’t the best use of my CEO time.
The Fear of Losing Control:The Fear of Losing Control: Handing over a piece of your business baby can feel terrifying. What if they mess it up? What if they don’t care as much as you do? This fear often keeps us clinging to tasks that are well below our pay grade or outside our zone of genius.
The Guilt Monster:The Guilt Monster: This one is particularly potent for mothers. There’s often an underlying guilt that we should be able to manage everything, that asking for help is a sign of weakness, or that we’re somehow failing if we’re not personally involved in every single detail. I’ve had moments, especially when my little ones were tiny, where I’d be trying to respond to emails with a baby on my lap, feeling like I had to be the one to do it, even if my partner was offering to help with something else. Honestly, it’s a tough one to shake.
These aren’t signs of inadequacy; they’re deeply human, & often, deeply ingrained. But to truly scale & thrive, we need to reframe them.
I remember a time, not so long ago, when the thought of handing over anything business-related felt utterly impossible. I was launching a new course, juggling childcare, & trying to keep on top of everything else. The overwhelm was so intense I felt physically sick, a knot of anxiety constantly tightened in my stomach. My intuition was screaming at me to ask for help, but I stubbornly resisted, convinced I could power through. It was a classic "dogs in a crate" situation – everything felt squeezed and unsustainable. Looking back, I realize I was clinging to control out of fear, not strength.
Here's a confession to prove that I'm also in the messy middle of this delegation journey: I once delegated my email newsletter creation to a new VA, providing what I thought were crystal-clear instructions. I confidently ticked it off my list, only to discover the newsletter had gone out with the subject line "URGENT: This Week's Hot Deals!" and contained a picture of my dog, Espresso, instead of the planned professional graphic. Imagine – instead of carefully curated content, my subscribers were greeted with a close-up of Espresso’s goofy grin and his perpetually inquisitive eyes! Cringe, but true! The subject line felt totally off-brand & the visual… well, let’s just say it lacked the professional polish I was aiming for. The image itself was a candid shot – Espresso caught mid-leap, tongue lolling out, looking more like a furry, four-legged missile than a sophisticated brand ambassador! It taught me the vital lesson of double-checking even the smallest delegated tasks, especially in the early stages of working with someone new.
The Big Mindset Shift: Delegation as an Act of CEO Empowerment
Here’s where we flip the script. Strategic delegation isn’t about admitting defeat; it’s about stepping fully into your power as a leader. It’s an act of profound self-leadership & personal responsibility for your energy, your focus, & ultimately, the trajectory of your business.
Think about it: your time & energy are your most precious, non-renewable resources. Every minute you spend on a task that could be done by someone else (or even a smart AI tool!) is a minute you’re not spending on visionary work, on high-level strategy, on building key relationships, or, dare I say it, on recharging your own batteries so you can show up as the best version of yourself for your business & your family. Honestly, that improved well-being & sharper mental clarity are non-negotiable for long-term success. According to a recent study by the Harvard Business Review1, entrepreneurs who delegate effectively experience a 33% increase in overall productivity & a significant reduction in stress levels.
When I finally started to truly delegate – not just the odd task here & there, but strategically identifying areas where I wasn’t the best person for the job, or where my energy was better spent elsewhere – it was like a weight lifted. Suddenly, there was space to breathe, to think, to plan. Honestly, that’s when the real magic started to happen. It’s about understanding that your role as CEO is to steer the ship, not to row every single oar.
What Can You Really Hand Over? (Hint: More Than You Think!)
Okay, so you’re warming to the idea. But the practical question looms: what exactly can you delegate? & how do you do it without that nagging guilt?
Start by looking at your typical week or month. Grab a cuppa & jot down:
The Drainers:The Drainers: What tasks consistently leave you feeling depleted, bored, or frustrated? For me, it used to be certain admin tasks that just zapped my creative energy.
The Repeats:The Repeats: Are there things you do over & over again that could be systemised & handed off? Think regular reporting, scheduling, basic customer service responses.
The “Not My Genius” Zone:The “Not My Genius” Zone: We all have things we’re brilliant at, & things we’re… not so brilliant at, or that simply take us much longer than they would an expert. Be honest with yourself here. Perhaps it's graphic design, or detailed financial reconciliation.
The “Crucial, But Not by ME” List:The “Crucial, But Not by ME” List: These are tasks vital to your business operations but don't require your unique CEO touch to complete.
Once you have this list, it’s not about just flinging tasks at someone. It’s about strategically freeing up your capacity. Remember, every task delegated effectively buys you back time & mental space, allowing you to focus on activities that generate more income, impact, & joy. This is where you truly start to create more efficient systems & achieve better time management.
Finding Your Dream Team: From Virtual Assistants to AI Allies
So, who are these magical unicorns who can take things off your plate? The good news is, there are more options than ever before.
Virtual Assistants (VAs): Amazing for admin, social media management, customer service, research, & so much more.
Freelancers & Specialists: Brilliant for project-based work or specific expertise like copywriting, graphic design, web development, or bookkeeping.
Team Members: As you scale, hiring part-time or full-time team members becomes essential. This is a big step & one we support Scaling Leaders (typically at £1k-£10k+/month & growing) through in our Momentum Coaching, helping you build those foundational team structures. For more established Visionary Leaders (often £10k-£50k+/month, frequently 7-figure+ annually), optimising these structures for maximum impact is key, something we dive deep into within Ascend Executive Coaching.
AI Tools: Don't underestimate the power of technology! Smart AI tools can now handle a surprising number of tasks, from drafting emails & content ideas to analysing data & automating customer interactions. This is a core part of how we help clients streamline their processes & work smarter. Think about using tools like:
Jasper (Jasper.ai): Great for generating marketing copy, blog posts, and social media content.
Otter.ai (Otter.ai): Perfect for transcribing meetings and creating summaries, saving you hours of admin time.
Calendly (Calendly.com): Automates your scheduling process, freeing you from back-and-forth emails.
The key to choosing the right support is clarity on what you need, coupled with a willingness to invest time in finding the right fit – someone whose skills complement yours & whose values align with your business. Trust is built through clear communication, proper onboarding, & starting with smaller, well-defined tasks.
I remember when I first hired a VA. It felt like such a huge step! But starting small, with clear instructions for a few specific tasks, allowed us both to build confidence. Now, having reliable support is an absolute game-changer, especially when you’re navigating the beautiful chaos of family life alongside business ambitions. Many of our clients, especially those scaling their businesses, find that getting support in navigating this exact stage of building a small, effective team is transformative.
The Art of Graceful Delegation: Empowering Others, Empowering Yourself
Delegation isn't just about assigning tasks; it's about empowering others to succeed. This is where true leadership shines.
Here are a few practical tips:
Crystal Clear Briefs: Don’t assume they know what you mean. Provide detailed instructions, context, desired outcomes, & deadlines.
Resource Up: Ensure they have access to everything they need – tools, templates, information, & the authority to make necessary decisions within their scope.
Feedback Loops: Schedule regular check-ins. Create a safe space for them to ask questions & for you to provide constructive feedback.
Example: Instead of just saying "This needs improvement," try "I appreciate the effort on this design. Let’s explore different font options & maybe adjust the color palette to better align with our brand guidelines. What do you think?"
Embrace Their Way (The Anti-Perfectionism Pill!): This can be a tough one! As long as the outcome meets the standard, allow for different approaches. It builds their confidence & might even uncover a more efficient way of doing things.
Celebrate Wins: Acknowledge their contributions & successes. A little appreciation goes a long way in building a loyal & motivated support system.
Example: Acknowledge a team member by sending a thank you card to show them that they are appreciated & that their work is valued.
When you empower others effectively, you’re not just getting tasks done; you’re fostering growth, loyalty, & a stronger, more resilient business. This is how you build a business that can thrive even when you step away for that much-needed holiday (or, you know, a quiet cuppa without interruptions!).
The Ripple Effect: How Delegation Fuels Your Flourishing Business & Life
Strategic delegation isn't a siloed activity; it has a profound ripple effect across every area of your business & life. It’s a cornerstone of building a business that truly flourishes. When you delegate effectively, you:
Sharpen your FocusFocus, freeing up mental bandwidth for high-level strategy, innovation, & the visionary work only you can do.
Unleash your FlairFlair, giving you more time & energy for creative marketing, authentic connection, & building a brand that truly shines.
Create FlowFlow, by implementing smoother operations, more efficient systems (perhaps even AI-powered ones that work while you sleep!), & a business that runs with more ease.
Prioritise your wellbeing, reducing stress, preventing burnout, & allowing you to invest in your well-being so you can lead with vitality & joy.
Integrate FusionFusion, by leveraging AI & other technologies smartly to support your team & streamline processes, amplifying everyone's efforts.
This holistic approach is central to how we support female entrepreneurs at Femmeprenista. It’s about building a business that not only achieves financial success but also supports a life you love. If you're curious about how these elements work together, our Business Flourish Framework page offers a deeper dive into our philosophy. And it’s this very holistic success that we aim to foster within the broader Femmeprenista philosophy for our community.
Moving from "Doing It All" to "Leading It All"
My lovely Femmeprenista, if you take one thing away from our chat today, let it be this: strategic delegation is one of the most empowering skills you can cultivate. It’s your ticket to moving from the hamster wheel of “doing it all” to the CEO seat of “leading it all.” It’s how you scale your business, your impact, & your happiness, authentically & sustainably.
It might feel like a leap, but start small. Identify one task this week that you can delegate. Just one. See how it feels. Experience that little bit of extra space it creates. You’ve got this.
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Carlene Nisbett
Founder & CEO, Femmeprenista (Coach, Mentor, Speaker)
Wife, Mother of four, Business Owner, PhD Researcher, Pet mom, Plant mom, 5'0" tall Passionate Multitasker & Wine Lover, You get the drift
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