Strategic Business Coaching Female Entrepreneurs: Thrive in 2025
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- Jul 15, 2024
- 9 min read
Beyond the Hype: A CEO's Take on Why Strategic Business Coaching is a Non-Negotiable for Ambitious Female Entrepreneurs (Especially Mums) Eyeing 2025 Success

Alright, let’s have a real chat, yeah? As a CEO, a PhD researcher knee-deep in the world of female entrepreneurship, & – perhaps most importantly – a mum to four incredible, energetic, & often schedule-defying children, I’ve heard all sorts about business coaching. Some see it as a luxury, a nice-to-have when things are flush. Others think it’s what you turn to when your business is on the brink, a sort of emergency service for flailing ventures. And then there’s the hype – the gurus, the quick fixes, the promises of overnight millions.
Honestly? Most of that misses the point entirely.
From where I stand, juggling the beautiful chaos of motherhood with the demanding realities of scaling a business, strategic business coaching isn’t a fluffy extra or a panic button. It’s a non-negotiable strategic partnership. It's the secret weapon for ambitious female entrepreneurs, especially those of us who are mothers, who are looking to not just survive but to truly thrive & make a significant impact in 2025 & beyond. I vividly remember one morning trying to prep for a client call while simultaneously cleaning castor oil off the carpet (thanks to my toddler's artistic explorations!) – it was utter chaos! That’s when I knew I needed a better strategy. In an increasingly complex world, trying to go it all alone, relying solely on grit & late nights (and copious amounts of coffee, believe me, I know!), isn't just exhausting; it’s often the slowest, most frustrating route to where you want to be. What's the saying? "If it was easy, everybody would do it."
So, What Is Strategic Business Coaching, Really?
Forget the idea of someone just telling you what to do, or a cheerleader offering generic pep talks. True strategic coaching is about partnership. It’s about having an experienced, objective ally who helps you see the wood for the trees, who challenges your assumptions (gently, but firmly!), & who equips you with tailored strategies to build a business that not only succeeds financially but also integrates beautifully with your life, rather than consuming it.
It’s about moving beyond the reactive hustle – you know, the kind where you’re constantly putting out fires & feeling like you’re making it up as you go along (we’ve all been there!) – to a place of intentional, proactive growth. It's about working smarter, not just harder, a philosophy I live & breathe, especially when the school holidays roll around for what feels like half the year! See, this is the reality: finding the focused time amidst the "beautiful chaos" of family life isn't easy, but it is possible with the right systems in place.
Why It’s a Game-Changer for Ambitious Women (Especially Mums)
As female entrepreneurs, & particularly as mothers, we face a unique set of challenges & opportunities. We’re often juggling multiple critical roles, battling societal expectations, & striving to build something meaningful without sacrificing our families or our sanity. Here’s why the right coaching is so transformative in this context for scaling leaders:
1. Unshakeable Clarity in a World of Noise
The online space is deafening, isn’t it? A million voices telling you the "next big thing" you must do. Strategic coaching helps you cut through that static. It’s about gaining profound clarity on your vision, your unique definition of success (which, as I discovered during my MBA, is often far more about quality of life & impact than just a bigger paycheque), & your authentic path. It’s about developing that sharp, unwavering mindset that helps you identify & dismantle the limiting beliefs that whisper "you can't" or "who are you to do this?". I’ve seen firsthand, both in my own journey & with countless clients, how finding your true voice & purpose is the bedrock of sustainable success. It's about honing that inner compass so you can lead with confidence, even when the path ahead isn't perfectly clear.
It’s so easy to get lost in the noise, right? As a mum in business, I know all too well how many different hats we wear! One reflection informed by my ongoing PhD research into Black female entrepreneurship often highlights the importance of having a consistent anchor—that unwavering 'why'—that serves as an anchor amidst external pressures. Tell me, what’s one aspect of YOUR vision that lights you up even on tough days?
Example: I remember feeling completely lost when I first started scaling Femmeprenista. I tried every shiny object that came my way! Finally, I realized my core value was freedom - I had to build a business that gave me time with my kids, not keep me chained to my laptop 24/7.
2. From Overwhelm to Intentional, Strategic Action
Feeling like you’re drowning in a never-ending to-do list? That’s a classic sign you’re working in your business, not on it. A great coach helps you shift that. They’ll support you in designing & implementing streamlined, efficient workflows – those smart systems that create momentum & free you up to focus on your true zone of genius. We’re talking about creating efficient processes for everything from client onboarding to marketing, perhaps even leveraging intelligent AI tools to truly automate routine tasks & amplify your efforts without adding more to your plate. This isn't about just doing more; it's about doing the right things, consistently.
Ever feel like you’re the tortoise in a race full of hares? Me too, sometimes! And that’s okay – as long as you keep moving. Just remember, as Jim Rohn says, “Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines, practiced every day.”
For scaling leaders, this is where designing smooth, efficient workflows becomes so important, so you're working with the current, not against it.
Example: When I was first trying to systematize my client onboarding, I spent ages wrestling with complex CRMs, trying to automate everything. It was a nightmare! Then, I realized I just needed a simple Trello board & a few Zapier integrations. Now it runs like clockwork!
3. Building a Brand That’s Authentically YOU & Attracts Your Tribe
If your marketing feels like a chore, or if you’re trying to contort yourself into a version of what you think your clients want, it’s time for a change. The right coaching partnership empowers you to unearth & amplify your unique voice, your story, your ‘why’. It’s about developing authentic branding & messaging that genuinely connects with your ideal clients – those people who just get you & are excited to invest in what you offer. Imagine marketing that feels effortless because it’s a true extension of who you are. That’s the magic we aim for.
What story can only you tell? As Rory Sutherland puts it, "&Stories are the PDF files of human information." What's that core message you want to share?
Here's a simple 3-step process to help you uncover your unique voice:
Identify Your Core Values: What principles guide your life & business? List 3-5 values.
Unearth Your Story: What experiences have shaped you? What challenges have you overcome? Jot down key moments.
Speak Your Truth: How can you express your values & story in your marketing? Try using your authentic voice in a social media post.
Example: For ages, I thought I had to present a super-polished, corporate image. It felt so fake! Then, I started sharing the real, messy reality of my life as a mumpreneur. My audience loved it, & suddenly, marketing felt easy.
4. Sustainable Success & Thriving Through the Juggle
Ah, the juggle. It’s real, isn’t it? As mothers, we’re masters of multitasking, but that doesn’t mean we’re immune to burnout. In fact, we’re often at higher risk. Strategic coaching, especially a holistic approach, places immense value on your well-being. It’s about ensuring your business energises you rather than drains you, helping you set boundaries, manage your energy, & build a business that supports your life, not the other way around. My own journey, navigating a PhD, running a business, & raising four children (including through C-section recoveries & the baby years!), has taught me that prioritising your own fuel is not a luxury; it’s an absolute necessity for long-term success & happiness. Honestly, there were times, especially recovering from my fourth C-section, when I felt completely depleted. Learning to say 'no' to non-essential tasks and carving out just 30 minutes a day for myself made all the difference.
That’s why prioritising well-being is essential, & it's a theme I'm exploring in my research that resonates here. Studies show that mothers experience burnout at a rate 3x higher than other demographics (Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8226903/). It's definitely "not a sprint, it's a marathon," so let's create some sustainable habits that will be beneficial in the long run! What small self-care activity can you add to your daily schedule today?
Example: For months, I skipped lunch to squeeze in more work. I was exhausted & resentful! Then, I started scheduling a proper lunch break, even if it was just 20 minutes to eat something nutritious & read a book. My energy & focus skyrocketed.
5. Accountability, Accelerated Learning & Smarter Decisions
Let’s be honest: it’s easy to let things slide when you’re only accountable to yourself. A coach provides that crucial external accountability, keeping you focused on your goals & helping you push past your comfort zone. More than that, they bring an objective perspective, years of experience, & often, access to proven frameworks that can save you from costly mistakes & significantly shorten your learning curve. It's like having a seasoned navigator on your entrepreneurial expedition, helping you make smarter decisions, faster.
Building a business doesn't have to be a lonely expedition! Plus, did you know "that the game is won by acquiring skills, then applying them, then repeating," as Alex Hormozi says? It’s all about the process, the growth, & most importantly, the knowledge.
Example: I spent months trying to launch a new program on my own, constantly second-guessing myself & getting bogged down in the details. Then, I hired a launch strategist who gave me clear deadlines & held my feet to the fire. We launched successfully in weeks!
"But Carlene, What About…?" (Let’s Tackle Those Niggling Doubts)
I hear those little voices of objection, the ones that pop up when you’re considering a significant investment in yourself & your business. Let’s address them head-on:
"I can’t afford it right now." I truly get it. Every penny counts, especially when you’re building. But I’d gently challenge you to reframe this: what’s the cost of inaction? The cost of staying stuck, of slow growth, of potential burnout, of making easily avoidable mistakes? Strategic coaching is an investment, not an expense – an investment in your most valuable asset (that’s you!) & in the future profitability & sustainability of your business.
"I don’t have the time." This is precisely why coaching can be so powerful. It’s designed to help you reclaim your time by working smarter, by systemising, by focusing on what truly matters. Think of the hours (and stress!) saved by avoiding common pitfalls or by implementing a strategy that actually works.
"I should be able to figure this out on my own." This is a big one, especially for driven, capable women. But here’s a secret: the most successful entrepreneurs don’t go it alone. They seek out mentors, join masterminds, & yes, hire coaches. My own journey has been profoundly shaped by the support & guidance I’ve received, from my MBA at Cranfield to my coaching qualifications. Taking personal responsibility for your success includes making the smart decision to get the right support.
"How do I even find the right coach?" This is such an important question. It’s about finding someone who not only has the expertise but also aligns with your values, understands your specific context (hello, fellow mother entrepreneurs!), & offers a holistic approach. You want a partner who sees the whole you, not just your business plan.
The Femmeprenista Way: Holistic Growth for Lasting Impact
Here at Femmeprenista, our entire philosophy is built around this idea of holistic, sustainable success. It’s why we developed our comprehensive model for growth that addresses everything from cultivating that resilient, focused mindset & crafting authentic, compelling marketing, to implementing streamlined, AI-enhanced systems & prioritising your well-being so you can truly flourish. We believe deeply in personal responsibility, but also in the transformative power of tailored support & finding your unique voice in the world.
Your 2025 Vision Deserves a Strategic Partner
As you look towards your goals for 2025, ask yourself: am I truly set up for the level of success & fulfillment I desire? Is my current approach sustainable? Am I navigating this journey with the clarity, strategy, & support I deserve?
If there’s even a flicker of doubt, or a deep yearning for more – more impact, more freedom, more joy – then it’s time to consider strategic business coaching not as a future possibility, but as a present-day imperative. It’s about proactively shaping your future, rather than just reacting to it.
Investing in the right coaching is investing in your vision, your potential, & your ability to build an impactful, fulfilling business that allows you to live the life you truly want, beautiful chaos & all.
Carlene Nisbett
Founder & CEO, Femmeprenista (Coach, Mentor, Speaker)
Wife, Mother of four, Business Owner, PhD Researcher, Pet mom, Plant mom, 5'0" tall Passionate Multitasker & Wine Lover, You get the drift
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