Scale Sustainably: Female Entrepreneurs' Guide to Momentum
- (Admin) The Thrivology Company

- Jun 18, 2024
- 10 min read
Momentum Magic: Why What Got You Here Won't Get You There (And How to Scale Sustainably!)

Alright lovely, let’s have a real heart-to-heart. You, the ambitious, brilliant femmeprenista, quite possibly juggling little ones, school runs, & the never-ending saga of "what’s for dinner?" alongside building your empire. Honestly, it’s a superpower! You’ve poured your heart, soul, & probably more coffee than is medically advisable into your business. & guess what? It’s worked! You’ve seen success, you’ve got clients, you’re making an impact. You are a success.
But lately… has that initial fizz started to feel a bit flat? Are you working harder than ever, yet the growth dial seems stuck? Maybe you’re feeling like you’re on a hamster wheel that’s suddenly decided to wade through treacle instead of spinning freely with your sheer brilliance? Sound familiar? Thought so! If you’re nodding along, possibly with a baby asleep on your lap or a teenager raiding the fridge in the background, then darling, this one’s for you. Did you know that nearly 70% of female entrepreneurs report feeling stuck at some point in their scaling journey? According to a 2018 study by Guidant Financial, access to capital and cash flow are major obstacles for women-owned businesses. You’re not alone in this.
So many incredible women I work with, especially those powerhouse "Scaling Leaders," hit this exact point. It’s what I call the Plateau Paradox, & it’s a totally natural part of the journey. But the good news? There’s a way through, & it’s not about adding more hours to your already overflowing day. It’s about evolving.
The Plateau Paradox: Sound Familiar, Superwoman?
You started your business with passion, grit, & a vision. You wore all the hats – CEO, marketing guru, customer service queen, tech wizard (even if it was with a bit of YouTube help!), & chief tea-maker. & it got you here! You built something amazing from scratch. But now, the very things that created your initial success – that relentless hustle, those manual processes, you being the engine room for everything – might just be the things holding you back.
I remember in one of my earlier ventures, after the initial buzz & growth, things started to feel… sticky. Orders were coming in, which was fantastic, but managing them, along with marketing, client communications, & trying to actually innovate, became a 24/7 tightrope walk. It reminds me of the "Little Red Hen" fable – you know, when you're struggling & you need help, but nobody's there to lend a hand. I recall one particularly late night, staring at a spreadsheet at 1 AM, my toddler daughter having finally gone to sleep hours before, & my partner already long asleep, trying to manually reconcile payments with client deliveries. My eyes were gritty, my brain felt like mush, & I had this sinking feeling of, "Is this what scaling feels like? Because if so, I might have made a terrible mistake!" And then my daughter, bless her heart, sleep-walked in, pointed at the screen and said, "Mummy numbers!". It wasn’t a lack of effort; it was a lack of the right kind of systems for that next stage.
This feeling of being overwhelmed despite your achievements is so common. You might be thinking:
"I'm working all hours, but my income isn't growing proportionally."
"My old marketing strategies aren't bringing in the same results."
"I feel like a bottleneck in my own business."
"I'm terrified of dropping a ball, & there are so many balls!"
"Is this sustainable? Can I really grow without burning myself out completely?"
If any of that resonates, take a deep breath. It’s not a sign of failure; it’s a sign you’re ready for your next evolution. At Femmeprenista, we understand these unique stages because we’ve lived them & guide incredible women through them every day. (If you want to read more about our overall support for female entrepreneurs, you can check that out Femmeprenista Female Entrepreneur Support: Find Your Purpose).
"What Got You Here Won't Get You There" – The Evolution Imperative
There’s a brilliant quote by Tony Robbins that I come back to time & time again, for myself & for my clients: "What got you here won't get you there."
Let that sink in for a moment. The sheer hustle, the 'doing it all yourself' approach, the scrappy systems that were perfect when you were starting out – they were your launchpad. They were essential. But to truly scale, to build a business that not only grows but also gives you back your time & energy, you need a new flight plan.
This isn't about diminishing your past efforts – far from it! It's about recognising that as your business grows, your role within it must change. The mindset, habits, & operational strategies that built your foundation now require a strategic upgrade. This evolution isn't just a good idea; it's an act of smart leadership & frankly, personal responsibility. It’s about saying, "Okay, this worked for phase one. What does phase two, three, or even phase ten require of me & my business?"
I had a similar epiphany during my MBA at Cranfield. I initially pursued it thinking it would give me a better corporate career, a way out of feeling micromanaged & underpaid. But as I dived into strategic business principles, I realised that even climbing higher up someone else's ladder wouldn't give me the autonomy, impact, or the quality of life I truly craved. It reconnected me to my entrepreneurial spirit, but with a new understanding: building my own business also required constant evolution. The way I approached my first ventures, often as a young mother navigating university, had to evolve as my life, family, & business ambitions grew. The same principle applies to every stage of scaling – you have to be willing to learn, adapt, & implement new ways of working.
From Chief Everything Officer to Strategic CEO: The Smart Scaling Shift
So, what does this evolution actually look like? It’s about transitioning from being the primary "doer" in your business to becoming its strategic CEO. It’s less about being in the weeds (though you'll always need to know your garden!) & more about designing the garden & orchestrating its growth.
Here’s where the magic really starts to happen:
Embrace Smart Systems & Streamlined Flow: This is where you stop trying to power a rocket ship with AA batteries! It's time to implement more sophisticated, efficient systems. Think about your client onboarding, your project management, your marketing funnels.
Client Onboarding: Tools like Dubsado or HoneyBook can automate contracts, invoices, & even welcome packets, creating a seamless & professional experience.
Project Management:Asana or Trello help you stay organized & track progress on projects, ensuring nothing falls through the cracks.
Marketing Funnels: Automate your email marketing with ConvertKit or Mailchimp to nurture leads & drive sales while you sleep!
Where are the bottlenecks? What can be automated or systemised to create a smoother experience for both you & your clients? This isn't about complicated tech for tech's sake; it's about finding elegant solutions that free up your precious time & mental energy. My ongoing PhD research into Black female entrepreneurship often highlights how resourcefulness in systemising can be a game-changer, especially when time & resources are stretched.
Leverage the Power of 'Fusion' – Your AI Co-pilot: & speaking of smart systems, let's talk AI. Now, don’t let your eyes glaze over! I’m not talking about needing a degree in computer science. I’m talking about practical, accessible AI tools that can become your business’s secret weapon.
Content Creation: Use Jasper.ai to draft social media content, blog posts, & even email newsletters in a fraction of the time.
Data Analysis:Tableau or even advanced features in Google Analytics can provide deeper insights into customer behavior & marketing performance.
Email Automation:Smartlead automates email sequences, allowing you to nurture leads while you focus on other tasks.
Scheduling:Calendly automates scheduling more effectively by managing your schedule, freeing up a lot of time.
Imagine AI helping you draft social media content, analyse customer data for deeper insights, automate email sequences, or even manage your schedule more effectively. This is about working smarter, not just harder, by integrating intelligent automation that handles repetitive tasks & provides insights, allowing you to focus on high-level strategy & genuine connection. It’s about making your processes more efficient & dare I say, even a bit fun!
Refine Your Offers for Premium Impact: As you scale, it’s often wise to look at refining your offers. Are you still trying to be everything to everyone? Scaling successfully often means focusing on attracting & serving premium clients who value your expertise & are ready for transformation. I've seen clients increase their revenue by 50% simply by packaging their services into higher-value programs. Ready to refine your offers for premium impact? Here's a quick checklist:
Identify your most profitable clients: Who brings in the most revenue & is a joy to work with?
Analyze their needs & challenges: What are their biggest pain points & desired outcomes?
Package your services into high-value programs addressing those needs: Create irresistible offers that solve their problems & deliver exceptional results.
Strategic Delegation – You Don’t Have to Do It All! This can be a tough one, I know. Especially when your business is your baby. But trying to do everything yourself is a surefire recipe for burnout. Start thinking about what tasks you can delegate. Could a virtual assistant handle your admin? Could a specialist manage your social media ads? Strategic delegation isn't a sign of weakness; it's a hallmark of a smart CEO who understands where her unique genius lies. Remember that feeling of being a "replaceable cog" in corporate? Well, in your own business, you are irreplaceable for the vision & strategy, but many tasks are not.
This entire shift – towards better systems, leveraging smart technology like AI, focusing on premium value, & intelligent delegation – is at the heart of what we call the The Business Flourish Framework. It’s a holistic approach designed to help you build a business that not only thrives financially but also supports your well-being & allows you to lead a life you genuinely love. It’s about ensuring your business energises you, rather than drains you.
Your Partner in Scale: How Momentum Coaching Makes the Difference
Navigating this evolution can feel daunting, especially when you’re already juggling so much. It’s one thing to know you need to change your approach; it’s another to figure out how to do it effectively, & to stay the course when things get challenging.
That’s precisely why I created Momentum Coaching Page. It’s our signature 6-month 1:1 coaching accelerator specifically designed for ambitious Scaling Leaders like you – women who are ready to move beyond the plateau & build truly sustainable, impactful, & joyful businesses.
Think of it as having a dedicated strategic partner by your side, someone who gets the unique challenges you’re facing (yes, including the beautiful chaos of motherhood!) & can provide the tailored roadmap, high-touch support, & expert guidance you need. Here’s a glimpse of how we help you create that "Momentum Magic":
Tailored Strategies, Not Cookie-Cutter Plans: We dive deep into your business, your goals, & your life to co-create strategies that are a perfect fit. No generic advice here!
Mindset Mastery for Confident Leadership: Scaling often brings up a whole new level of limiting beliefs or imposter syndrome. We work on cultivating that unshakeable CEO mindset, helping you lead with clarity, confidence, & resilience. It’s about sharpening your focus & leading yourself first.
Implementing Scalable Infrastructures (Hello, Smart Systems!): We roll up our sleeves with you to design & implement those crucial systems, including practical AI solutions that simplify & streamline your operations, freeing you up for visionary work.
Attracting & Enrolling Dream Clients: We refine your messaging & marketing to effortlessly attract premium clients who are a joy to work with & happy to invest in your expertise.
Accountability & High-Touch Support: Let’s be honest, it’s easy for big plans to fall by the wayside when life gets busy. You’ll have me as your dedicated accountability partner, with direct 1:1 support to keep you on track & moving forward.
Sustainable Success Without the Sacrifice: This is HUGE. We focus on building a business that supports your well-being, integrates with your family life, & allows you to thrive holistically – no more burnout on the agenda!
I recently worked with a brilliant client, let's call her Sarah. She was an incredibly talented service provider, a mum of two, & was completely swamped. Her business had grown, but she was the bottleneck for everything. She was working evenings & weekends, feeling guilty about missing family time, & her income had flatlined. Through Momentum Coaching, we first tackled her mindset around delegation – she, like many of us, felt she "should" be able to do it all. Then, we identified key tasks to outsource & implemented a simple AI-powered client management system. Within three months, she’d freed up 10 hours a week, her stress levels plummeted, & she landed her two biggest clients ever because she finally had the headspace to focus on higher-value activities. That’s the power of evolving your approach with the right support.
Unlocking Your Next Level: Sustainable Success is Within Reach
Breaking through that growth plateau isn’t about finding some mythical silver bullet or working yourself into the ground. It’s about courageously embracing the fact that what got you here, while brilliant, needs to evolve for what’s next. It’s about strategic thinking, smart systems, a resilient mindset, & the right support.
You have the ambition, you have the talent, & you absolutely deserve to have a business that not only achieves incredible success but also allows you to live a rich, fulfilling life alongside it. A life where you’re not just surviving the juggle, but truly thriving in it. Imagine having more time for those precious family moments, more energy for your own passions, & more peace of mind knowing your business is growing sustainably. It is possible.
You’ve already proven you can build something amazing. Now, it’s time to give yourself permission to build it smarter, bigger, & with more joy.
Are you ready to stop feeling stuck & start creating real, sustainable momentum? Are you ready to ditch the treacle & get your business humming again? Let’s chat!
Carlene Nisbett
Founder & CEO, Femmeprenista (Coach, Mentor, Speaker)
Wife, Mother of four, Business Owner, PhD Researcher, Pet mom, Plant mom, 5'0" tall Passionate Multitasker & Wine Lover, You get the drift
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