Delegation for Female Entrepreneurs: Scale Your Business
- (Admin) The Thrivology Company
- May 17, 2024
- 6 min read
Delegation: Your Secret Weapon for Scaling Your Business (and Your Sanity!)

Letās be honest, how many times have you felt like you're juggling flaming torches while balancing on a unicycle, all while trying to look effortlessly graceful? If you're a mum & an entrepreneur ā especially a Scaling Leader ā chances are, that feeling is practically your default setting. You're the CEO, the marketing guru, the customer service rep, the chief bottle washer... & let's not forget, Mum! It's exhausting, right? We get it, believe me. Balancing my business while running after four kids (and two equally energetic Miniature Pinschers ā it's a whole circus!), not to mention tackling my PhD, has taught me a very important lesson: you can't do it all alone. & you shouldn't have to.
Why Delegation Isn't Just a Time-Saver, It's Self-Care
We often hear about delegation as a time management strategy, & it absolutely is. But I want to shift your perspective a little. Think of delegation as a fundamental act of Self-Care for Female Entrepreneurs. Yes, really! Because when you're constantly spinning plates, something's gotta give. Usually, itās your well-being, your family time, or your ability to think strategically about the bigger picture of your business.
I remember a time, not too long ago, when I was trying to finalise a presentation for a potential new client ā a major tech company ā the baby was having a meltdown (because apparently, my laptop keyboard is the perfect teething toy), my six-year-old needed help with a "glitter volcano" school project (don't ask!), & Espresso, our hyperactive puppy, decided to redecorate the living room with the contents of the bin. The sheer panic of trying to keep it all together while feeling utterly inadequate as both a mum & a business owner? It nearly broke me. I literally burst into tears as soon as the call ended. Thatās when I realised I had to change something. I couldnāt keep running on empty. Strategic Delegation for Femmeprenistas: Reclaim Time & Scale wasn't just about freeing up my time; it was about reclaiming my energy & sanity.
From Control Freak to Confident CEO: Shifting Your Mindset
One of the biggest hurdles to delegation is our own mindset. As entrepreneurs, especially when weāre just starting out, we tend to be very hands-on. We've poured our heart & soul into our businesses; it's our baby! So the idea of letting someone else take the reins, even for a small task, can feel terrifying. Honestly, sometimes, you have to ask yourself, āIs your grip on control actually serving you, or is it stifling your growth & preventing you from reaching your full potential?ā
Trust me, I know that feeling. There was a time when the thought of handing over even the smallest task filled me with guilt, like I was failing somehow. It took me a while to realise that asking for support was actually a strength, not a weakness. My early venture, Nisbett & George, taught me so much about the importance of the right partnerships. I was a new mum then, fresh out of university, & I wanted to go all in. My business partner, however, was at a different life stage & needed the stability of a regular job. This mismatch in capacity, something my PhD research often highlights, was a tough lesson in balancing personal commitments with entrepreneurial drive. It also taught me that sometimes, letting go of a little control is the best way to grow. It can be tough, especially if youāve had experiences in corporate where you felt micromanaged or undervalued. I learned first hand, from my time at Apple, that if you don't see the corporate game, you're not going to get very far. I remember being told point blank, āYouāre replaceable.ā It stung then, but it also fuelled my fire to build something where my contributions were valued.
Building the Delegation Dream Team: Systems & Support
Now, mindset is crucial, but it's not enough. Delegation without clear systems is like trying to build a house without a blueprint. You need a solid foundation to ensure everything runs smoothly. This is for you, especially if you're a Scaling Leader navigating the complexities of growth.
This is where efficient systems come in. Think of them as the backbone of your business. As my MBA taught me, robust systems are essential for scalable growth. Even now, while juggling my PhD research & four kids, I find myself constantly refining our processes at Femmeprenista, because it's the system that's going to help us, not just sheer effort. It wasn't always this way, though. I distinctly recall a time when our Client Onboarding Systems: Streamline & Wow Clients! was a complete mess ā a chaotic mix of spreadsheets, emails, & frantic last-minute scrambles. It took a painful near-miss with a high-profile client to realize I needed a more robust solution. That's when I really dove deep into creating the streamlined system we use today.
Having documented processes for every key task ā from client onboarding to social media scheduling ā makes it so much easier to hand things over confidently.
Clear processes allow you to easily train new team members.
Documented workflows reduce errors & ensure consistency.
Systems free you up to focus on strategic activities, not just the daily grind.
Maybe you could leverage smart AI tools like Zapier or Chat GPT to streamline these processes, automating repetitive tasks & freeing up time for you & your team. A common theme I'm exploring in my research into Black female entrepreneurship that resonates here is the importance of systems & support.
Ditching the Guilt & Owning Your Growth
I know what you might be thinking: "But I can't afford to hire anyone yet!" or "I feel guilty asking for help." These are common concerns, but they're often rooted in limiting beliefs.
Remember what I always say: "Hard work beats intelligence, but smart work beats them both!" Investing in support ā whether it's a virtual assistant, a freelancer, or even just asking a friend or family member for a specific task ā isnāt an expense; it's an investment in your growth & your well-being. It allows you to focus your precious energy on the activities that only YOU can do, the ones that truly leverage your unique skills & genius. Think about it: What could you achieve if you weren't constantly putting out fires & could dedicate that time to strategizing, creating, & connecting with your ideal clients?
Remember, asking for help is not a weakness; it's a strength. Itās a recognition that you're not meant to do this alone. & it creates space for others to contribute their talents & support your vision.
Ready to Delegate Like a Boss?
So, are you ready to ditch the overwhelm & step into your role as the confident CEO youāre meant to be? Hereās your 3-step action plan:
Identify & Document: Choose one task to delegate this week. For Scaling Leaders, this might be managing your social media calendar, creating graphics for your posts, or handling basic customer service inquiries. Write down every single step involved in that task, as if you were explaining it to someone who's never done it before. The more detail, the better!
Train & Empower: If delegating to a team member or VA, provide clear training materials & resources, including screen recordings or step-by-step guides. Empower them to own the task by encouraging questions, offering constructive feedback, & providing ongoing support. Remember my experience at Apple ā sometimes giving a team member more autonomy is the key to unlocking their potential. Avoid micromanaging; trust them to do the job.
Review & Refine: Once the task is complete, review the outcome & the process with your team member. Were there any hiccups or unexpected challenges? What can be improved next time? This feedback loop, a key principle from my NLP training, is crucial for refining your delegation system over time. Itās also a great opportunity to acknowledge their efforts & celebrate their wins.
Ready to build more momentum in your business through strategic delegation & other game-changing strategies?
Carlene Nisbett
Founder & CEO, Femmeprenista (Coach, Mentor, Speaker)
Wife, Mother of four, Business Owner, PhD Researcher, Pet mom, Plant mom, 5'0" tall Passionate Multitasker & Wine Lover, You get the drift
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